Cómo defenderse:
http://www.drbrucegoldberg.com/EnergyVampires.htm
Never stand directly in front of this person. Do not make eye contact with him or her, if possible. Encourage them with words, but do not offer to do things for them. Remember these individuals live in constant fear of rejection and abandonment. Do not let your pity for them be a basis for you being their next victim.
http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/03/11/o.energy.vampires/index.html
I also suggest you step back and think about what type of people aggravate you, because I believe that one law of energy is that we attract what we haven’t yet worked out in ourselves. If I’m a very angry person, I’ll find myself surrounded by angry people.
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Otros principios aplicables:
http://nlpco.com/news/2008/12/11/toms-twelve-laws-of-life/
Everyone listens to his or her favorite mental radio station – W.I.I.F.M., which stands for, “What’s In It For Me?” So don’t take it personally when you’re overlooked, your call goes un-returned, and you go un-thanked.
Here’s the big principle. If you want something to happen, take control and do it yourself. Don’t get bitter if perhaps someone else didn’t keep a commitment to help you.
It is a waste of time to criticize others, and a bigger waste to pay attention to anyone’s criticism of you. Just know that you can get better at doing things on your own.
http://happybrainstorm.com/index.php/Energy-takers-VS-Energy-givers.html
You see, when someone is in a group he can only be doing one of two following things:
a) He can either be offering energy to that group or
b) He can be stealing energy from that group. You offer energy by being positive and by provoking positive feelings to the rest of the group. You steal energy by sitting there passively and wait to be entertained ( EVEN WORSE you could be offering negative energy).
